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Yes to Sex
An exploration of
Sex, Drugs and Rock 'n' Roll.
Sexpert and oOYes founder, Tanya Griffin, brings her 1960s-70s, sex positive vibe to thoughtful musings, tips, tutorials and advice helping to create community and help others say, "Yes to Sex!"
New post every week
Take Control of Your Menopause Care
Gen X and, you too Gen Y, let’s talk about midlife changes and dialing in your best plan for better moods, good sleep, and pleasurable sex.
Tanya Griffin
Jan 15, 20254 min read
Estrogen Is Your Friend
For women, balancing our hormones can be a lifelong challenge that affects our moods, energy, sleep, pain tolerance, and fertility.
Tanya Griffin
Jan 8, 20255 min read
All Lubed Up: A guide to using lube
No matter what your age, gender or sexual orientation nothing beats it. Silicone lube reduces friction and simply makes sex better.
Tanya Griffin
Dec 30, 20244 min read
Give the gift of oOrgasmic pleasure.
Now is the time to lean into oOrgasmic pleasure. Whether you chose to blow things up or not, we are in for a ride. Find your orgasmic self i
Tanya Griffin
Dec 18, 20242 min read
Dancing with Estrogen, Cannabis and Orgasms
There is a magical dance party continually at play in your body. Your friends have arrived and are ready to party. As the ‘Hostess with...
Tanya Griffin
Dec 10, 20246 min read
Jump into sexy time.
The good news is, when your are ready, these mindsets and practices can set you on your way to prioritizing pleasure with each other:
Tanya Griffin
Nov 26, 20245 min read
How many minutes can you give up for pleasure?
Stressed out? Try having more and better Sex! Prioritizing pleasure starts with building routines that lead to intimacy. We spend an...
Tanya Griffin
Nov 7, 20243 min read
Giallo films to Shag thru 🎥
If you are not familiar with Italian Giallo or Spaghetti Slasher films you are in for a real treat. If you are a fellow film connoisseur, pl
Tanya Griffin
Oct 30, 20242 min read
Female Fantasy is Power
Female fantasy is Power. Power over our sexuality, power to instigate oOrgasms and the power to pursue pleasure without shame.
Tanya Griffin
Oct 23, 20242 min read
Let’s Talk About Sex & Drugs
A new article from Sexpert and oOYes founder, Tanya Griffin discussing Sex and Drugs and how the conversation has evolved through generation
Tanya Griffin
Oct 16, 20243 min read
The Female Orgasm is Not Luxury.
The female orgasm is not a luxury but a basic bodily function that all women should be able to enjoy. Women can be multi-orgasmic.
Tanya Griffin
Oct 10, 20242 min read
It's time to close the oOrgasm gap.
The oOrgasm gap can go both ways. While men report cumming twice as often as straight women, once we find our way, pleasure can be multi-org
Tanya Griffin
Sep 25, 20243 min read
What happens when you orgasm on cannabis?
Mixing orgasms and cannabis enhances sexual pleasure by boosting dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins, freeing the mind.
Tanya Griffin
Jul 31, 20247 min read
A Guide to Cannabis & Sex: Dosing, Delivery Methods, and Strains
Welcome back as we take a deeper dive into best practices for sex with cannabis and ask ourselves, does weed make sex better? On this path t
Tanya Griffin
May 10, 20246 min read
Free your mind...
Find the playlist that inspired this article here. Love is Freedom. Freedom to Let Be, Freedom to Love with Abandon, And, in the words of...
Tanya Griffin
Apr 26, 20242 min read
A Guide to Sex and Cannabis
Explore the captivating relationship between sex and cannabis. Discover how cannabis enhances pleasure, intimacy, and orgasms in this enligh
Tanya Griffin
Apr 18, 202410 min read
Getting Intimate: 5 Communication Strategies to Enhance Your Sexual Connection
We explore 5 communication strategies to enhance your sexual connection with your partner, deepening the bedrock of any healthy relationship
Tanya Griffin
Apr 5, 20237 min read
The Art of Moaning: How Feedback During Intimacy Can Enhance Your Sexual Experience
Moaning is a powerful form of nonverbal feedback that can enhance your sexual experience. We discuss the benefits of moaning and a guide.
Tanya Griffin
Apr 3, 20233 min read
F*cking, Fruits, and Fitness: From Routine to Ritual
If you could find time for sexual pleasure every day, would you do it? It is well known, especially for women, that sex is as much about...
Tanya Griffin
Feb 25, 20236 min read
Top Cannabis Strains for Enhancing Sexual Pleasure
Find the best strains to enhance sex before your next visit to the dispensary.
Lisa Tellor-Kelley
Apr 18, 20224 min read
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