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Yes to Sex
An exploration of
Sex, Drugs and Rock 'n' Roll.
Sexpert and oOYes founder, Tanya Griffin, brings her 1960s-70s, sex positive vibe to thoughtful musings, tips, tutorials and advice helping to create community and help others say, "Yes to Sex!"
New post every week


Jimi Hendrix Plaster Caster, Groupie and Chicago Mayoral Candidate
It’s time for another March idol’s “Guess Who”. Today I'm sharing one badass female artist. This die heart Rock groupie donated a plaster

Tanya Griffin
Mar 26, 20253 min read


Ostracized for her voice on female orgasms… Guess who!
Ostrasised for her outspoken voice on female oOrgasms and surveys on human sexuality, this 1970’s-80’s icon’s first book sold 50M+ copies.

Tanya Griffin
Mar 18, 20254 min read


Meet Funk Diva Betty Davis
The original funk diva, singer, songwriter, and model, Betty Davis, brought a raw sexuality, talent, grit and charisma that took the New Yor

Tanya Griffin
Mar 7, 20253 min read


oOh to be a Comedian… Handler’s LSD Trip
As you decide where you land on shame or decide to pass judgement on Chelsey Handler for sharing her LSD, remember the last time you freely

Tanya Griffin
Feb 27, 20254 min read


Honey for Your Honey Pot
Honey has estrogenic effects. It can mimic the actions of the hormone estrogen thus helping to maintain the moisture and health of vaginal t

Tanya Griffin
Feb 20, 20253 min read


It’s Time for an Orgasm
Ways to Dial in Orgasmic Pleasure as a mutli-orgasmic woman.

Tanya Griffin
Feb 12, 20253 min read


Tips for Going Down: Cunnilingus
Being able to lay back, relax and actively receive pleasure takes open mind and practice. Showing up ready to receive, without your mind get

Tanya Griffin
Feb 12, 20253 min read


Reduce Stress with Sex
Sexpert and oOYes founder, Tanya Griffin discusses how stress can affect your sex life, and how it can help relieve stress.

Tanya Griffin
Feb 6, 20254 min read


Shame, Shame, Shame on Female Pleasure
As we roll into Valentine’s Day I thought it apt to discuss the shaming of female pleasure while turning this article on its head by...

Tanya Griffin
Jan 29, 20253 min read


Tips for Going Down: Fellatio
Sexpert and oOYes founder, Tanya Griffin goes through her tips for going down and preforming fellatio or oral sex during foreplay or sex.

Tanya Griffin
Jan 28, 20252 min read


Take Control of Your Menopause Care
Gen X and, you too Gen Y, let’s talk about midlife changes and dialing in your best plan for better moods, good sleep, and pleasurable sex.

Tanya Griffin
Jan 15, 20254 min read


Estrogen Is Your Friend
For women, balancing our hormones can be a lifelong challenge that affects our moods, energy, sleep, pain tolerance, and fertility.

Tanya Griffin
Jan 8, 20255 min read


All Lubed Up: A guide to using lube
No matter what your age, gender or sexual orientation nothing beats it. Silicone lube reduces friction and simply makes sex better.

Tanya Griffin
Dec 30, 20244 min read


Give the gift of oOrgasmic pleasure.
Now is the time to lean into oOrgasmic pleasure. Whether you chose to blow things up or not, we are in for a ride. Find your orgasmic self i

Tanya Griffin
Dec 18, 20242 min read


Dancing with Estrogen, Cannabis and Orgasms
There is a magical dance party continually at play in your body. Your friends have arrived and are ready to party. As the ‘Hostess with...

Tanya Griffin
Dec 10, 20246 min read


Jump into sexy time.
The good news is, when your are ready, these mindsets and practices can set you on your way to prioritizing pleasure with each other:

Tanya Griffin
Nov 27, 20245 min read


How many minutes can you give up for pleasure?
Stressed out? Try having more and better Sex! Prioritizing pleasure starts with building routines that lead to intimacy. We spend an...

Tanya Griffin
Nov 7, 20243 min read


Giallo films to Shag thru 🎥
If you are not familiar with Italian Giallo or Spaghetti Slasher films you are in for a real treat. If you are a fellow film connoisseur, pl

Tanya Griffin
Oct 30, 20242 min read


Female Fantasy is Power
Female fantasy is Power. Power over our sexuality, power to instigate oOrgasms and the power to pursue pleasure without shame.

Tanya Griffin
Oct 23, 20242 min read


Let’s Talk About Sex & Drugs
A new article from Sexpert and oOYes founder, Tanya Griffin discussing Sex and Drugs and how the conversation has evolved through generation

Tanya Griffin
Oct 16, 20243 min read
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